Selecting your wedding music might feel like a big task, but don’t worry—it’s all part of the fun! You’ll set the mood for some fantastic moments, from the grand entrance to the first dance and beyond.
While we’re not quite at the party stage yet, there are a few key moments to think about, including the entrance, dinner, cake cutting, and dancing. This guide is here to make it easier, so you can focus on enjoying your special day.
I’ll walk you through each major moment of your reception and offer some tips and song suggestions to make everything flow beautifully. Music is a huge part of creating the perfect atmosphere, so let’s get started and make sure your day is unforgettable!
Music for The Grand Entrance
Before dinner kicks off, we’ll get things started with a lively entrance into the reception space, where we’ll introduce your wonderful parents, wedding party, and, of course, the newlyweds!
Decide on one or two upbeat songs for this moment, based on the number of people in your party and the vibe you’re going for. Typically, a brief clip of each song plays as each individual or couple is introduced.
Don’t forget to share with your MC how you’d like to be presented as a newly married couple—will it be ‘Mr. and Mrs. ???’ or just your first names?
A little tip: it’s a popular trend for the newlyweds to have their first dance right after their introduction. If you’re planning to do this, make sure to give your DJ and MC a heads-up so everything flows smoothly!
Dinner Music
It’s mealtime! This is the ideal moment to set a relaxing mood with some gentle background music while you and your guests savor the wedding dinner. Opt for soft, soothing tunes to keep the atmosphere calm and conversational.
Consider playing some romantic classics or beloved favourites to enhance the ambiance. You might want to choose a music genre that suits the mood of your dinner. Here are a few great options:
Jazz
Classical
Modern Instrumental
Country
Electronic Chill
A little tip: it’s a popular trend for the newlyweds to have their first dance right after their introduction. If you’re planning to do this, make sure to give your DJ and MC a heads-up so everything flows smoothly!
Cake Cutting
Dinner’s over and the speeches have wrapped up—it’s time to dive into the cake! This is a fun and lighthearted moment for you and your partner to enjoy, and your guests will love it too.
Pro Tip: Use this time to let your guests take a little break. It’s a great chance for them to stretch their legs and grab a refreshment from the bar. After a full dinner and a few speeches, they’ll appreciate the breather. Before you know it, everyone will be ready and excited to hit the dance floor!
Music for The First Dances
The party is almost here, and it’s time to get excited for the dance floor! A few key dances will kick off the celebration, and picking the right songs for these moments is crucial.
Bride and Groom Dance: This is your special moment, so choose a romantic song that feels perfect for your first dance as a married couple.
Parent Dances: After your dance, it’s time for the bride to share a dance with her father and the groom to dance with his mother. Selecting meaningful songs for these dances will make them even more memorable. It’s worth checking in with your parents—they might have a song in mind that could add a lovely surprise to the evening.
Let’s make sure these moments shine and set the stage for a night of fun and dancing!
Music for The Dance Party
The moment we've all been waiting for is finally here—it’s time to hit the dance floor! Instead of creating a lengthy playlist, simply choose a few genres you love and let your DJ work their magic.
Pro Tip: Give your DJ some freedom to make the night unforgettable. While it’s great to have a handful of must-play songs, don’t feel the need to micromanage the playlist. Your DJ will gauge the mood and keep the energy up by mixing in various styles of music, ensuring everyone stays on their feet and the party lasts all night long.
Final Three Moments
With drinks flowing and the dance floor packed, the energy will be electric and everyone will be having a fantastic time! But as the night progresses, there are a few final moments you'll want to have music ready for.
Bouquet Toss: This fun tradition is a great way to involve all the single ladies. Pick a lively, upbeat song to make this moment even more exciting.
Garter Toss: While this tradition isn’t as common as it once was, if you’re planning to include it, choose a playful or cheeky song to add a touch of humor and charm.
Last Song of the Night: As the evening draws to a close, the final song is your chance to set the perfect ending. Decide if you want to go out with a bang or end on a romantic note. Whether you choose an energetic track to get everyone on the dance floor or a tender ballad for a special last dance with your partner, make sure it’s a song that feels just right for you.
Thats A Wrap
Selecting the right music for your wedding reception might seem overwhelming, but it’s really about creating a magical atmosphere that reflects your unique style and celebrates your big day. From the grand entrance to the last dance, each song you choose helps set the mood and make every moment memorable. Focus on the moments that matter most to you and let your music choices enhance the celebration. With a bit of planning and a lot of heart, your reception will be a joyous, unforgettable experience for you and your guests. So, enjoy the process, let the music flow, and get ready for a night full of love, laughter, and dancing!